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Mine your family holidays for description practice

11/21/2018

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​My plan was to stop there. Wish everyone a happy Thanksgiving and then be done.
But...
​I started thinking about the first time my husband (then my fiancé) had Thanksgiving dinner at my family’s home. I remember his surprise at all the different dishes we served, his disgust at one of them*, and his confusion when he caught me and my cousin flipping the cookies upside down**. Your family traditions are a gold mine. Mine those memories to practice writing description and editing down that description to a few key details.
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​Family traditions are typically rich in description opportunities: What do you eat? What activities do you do? Who joins you? Where do you meet?
​Food is one of the easiest things to practice describing because it’s accessible (we eat literally every day***) and it hits all the five senses: The sight of a perfectly baked pumpkin pie; the scent of cinnamon and cloves and ginger; the sound of a knife slicing thru the crisp crust and hitting the pie plate underneath; the taste of that first bite; and the smooth texture of the custard contrasting with the flakey crust.
​When you’re writing a story, you probably don’t want to include all five senses in every description opportunity. Your story can easily become tedious to read! Instead, you want to pick and choose key details that help propel your story.
​Show us something about your character: she hates ginger so that’s the detail you share, along with her reaction to it. Why doesn’t Mom ever remember I HATE ginger?
​Show an awkward silence (instead of tell) by describing the sound of the knife hitting the pie plate. It’s a small sound and easily missed when the room is full of chatter. If it’s the only detail you share, your readers focus on it and understand all that you don’t say.
​That brings me to another thing: show vs tell. It’s arguably one of the cardinal rules (if any writing rules really exist!) of fiction writing, but a lot of writers don’t know what it means. What is the difference between showing and telling and when are you doing one or the other?
​Description helps show (rather than tell) a scene. Consider:

Telling

Steve was worried about my aunt’s cigarette ash getting in the food.

Showing

Steve grabbed my arm and turned me away from the kitchen. He leaned down to whisper in my ear, “Is that OK? Do you need to tell her something?”

I followed his glance. My aunt stood at the stove, her left hand stirring a huge pot of her famous Velveeta mac-and-cheese, her right hand cocked to the side, a cigarette clenched between her first two fingers. She brought the cigarette to her lips, turned her head away from the pot and inhaled. As the ember moved down the cigarette, it left behind an inch-long clump of ash clinging to the unburned paper.
​This certainly isn’t the greatest writing (shitty first draft, baby!) but it should be enough to show the difference between showing and telling. The obvious: showing is generally longer than telling. And the less obvious: I never once wrote “Steve was worried” in the second sample. I didn’t write that the cigarette ash might fall into the food. By describing the scene, by showing it, you as the reader infer that Steve is worried and what he’s worried about. (And if that didn’t come across in this first draft, I’d revise!)
​So if you find yourself with some quiet time this Thanksgiving, or any celebratory event, duck away and write about it. Start with the food and try to capture all five senses. Move on to the activities. Describe people’s actions to show their emotions****. Lastly, think about picking and choosing those details to use them in a scene. How can you show this mood? How can you show increasing tension? What can we learn about this character?
​And then get back out there with the family and have some pie!

​* Hard-cooked eggs, boxed croutons, canned cheddar cheese soup. I can’t even find it on the internets… My mother never cooked anything without a recipe, so it had to have come from somewhere.
​** I grew up lower middle class. When my mom made Tollhouse cookies, she doubled the recipe on the back of the bag of chocolate chips, but only used the one bag. We flipped the cookies over because it was easier to see the chips and eat the cookies with the most!
​*** Um… *I* do. I suppose you may be fasting on occasion.
​**** This also gives you the benefit of studying people so that when you write your fictional people, you have natural actions at your fingertips.
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Lynda A Dietz link
11/22/2018 08:38:47 am

I have to say I agree with your husband: that dish sounds horrendous, haha. That aside, I love the idea of keen observance for the purpose of writing. Relatives and holidays provide such useful material, right? And that was a terrific example you gave of showing vs. telling.

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Val Serdy link
11/27/2018 09:03:41 am

I got lazy over the holiday and didn't check back here often enough! Thanks so much for visiting and commenting!

Yeah... I never liked that egg dish either, but couldn't call it "gross" to my mother's face!

And thanks for the compliment! I see so many writers ask what's the difference between showing and telling that I may have to make this a regular feature!

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